First of all, what version of JMP are you currently using? JMP Pro 14? JMP 14?
Second of all, have you tried using Fit Curve? (I think so but I am not sure.) This platform is easier than Nonlinear for many common models. It provides a model comparison report to help you select the best model based on fit statistics and information criteria.
(Note - R square is not recommended for model selection.)
Third, you are correct that R square is not available. That intentional omission is because that sample statistic assumes that the SS Error and the SS Model sum to SS Total, but that is not true for nonlinear case. You are also correct that AICc is not provided by Nonlinear but you can compute the AICc for the continuous response as n*Log( SSE/n ) + 2*k + (2*k^2 + 2*k)/(n-k-1) where k is the number of model parameters and n is the number of observations.
Fourth, if the outliers are not data errors, then you might try using the Weight analysis role. For example, this way can be used to perform a weighted regression with the reciprocal variance weight.