I am not the right person to provide answers to your questions, but I do have some food for thought:
I believe what you are trying to do is get an estimate of the variation of whatever it is you are measuring and compare that to specifications. There are many ways to do this just as there are many indices to summarize those comparisons. ALL of the indices are estimates. There is NO correct one. The purpose of analyzing the distribution of the data is to determine what summary statistics best describe the central tendency and dispersion. Just as important (or perhaps more), is to determine if the data comes from a stable system. If not, the indices will surely not be useful.
"All models are wrong, some are useful" G.E.P. Box