The Event Handler Column Property performs an action when you click on a row in the column, so this solution would be for only very simple selections, one at a time. Are you thinking you'd like to select corresponding rows in the linked table every time you select a row or group of rows in the main table? If so, I'd consider adding a simple table script.
sel = :name[Current Data Table() << Get Selected Rows];
dt << Select Where( Contains( sel, :name ) );
If you save that as a table script, you can select the rows you want and then just click the green triangle. Sure beats scrolling through 100,000 rows!