Is there an option (checkbox or setting) in Jmp to tell a data filter to exclude excluded rows from the lists?
 
Names Default To Here( 1 );
dt = Open( "$SAMPLE_DATA/Big Class.jmp" );
dt << Data Filter(
	Location( {265, 175} ),
	Mode( Select( 0 ), Include( 1 ) ),
	Add Filter(
		columns( :age, :sex ),
		Where( :age == {12, 14, 16} ),
		Where( :sex == "F" ),
		Display( :age, N Items( 6 ) )
	)
);
dt << New Column( "excluded", Character, "Nominal", set each value( If( Excluded(), "(excluded)", "" ) ) );
dt << New Column( "age_", Character, "Nominal", set each value( Char( :age ) || " " || :excluded ) );
dt << New Column( "sex_", Character, "Nominal", set each value( :sex || " " || :excluded ) );
	
gb = dt << Graph Builder(
	Size( 534, 498 ),
	Show Control Panel( 0 ),
	Summary Statistic( "Median" ),
	Graph Spacing( 4 ),
	Variables( X( :height ), Y( :weight ) ),
	Elements( Points( X, Y, Legend( 6 ) ), Smoother( X, Y, Legend( 7 ) ) )
);
df = gb << Local Data Filter(
	Conditional,
	Add Filter(
		columns( :excluded, :age_, :sex_ ),
		Where( Is Missing( :excluded ) )
	)
);
wait(4);
gb << Remove Local Data Filter();
df = gb << Local Data Filter(
	Add Filter(
		columns( :age_, :sex_ )
	)
);