Thanks Lou - super helpful! Would it be fair to say, then, that:
(a) it is nontrivial to hand-calculate the effects in the same way as the software (i.e., there is no (relatively) simple formula for this)
(b) the effects calculated by the software are better (more accurate) than those that I hand calculate by simply omitting the missing data - so I should use those
(c) that the results from the software are still OKAY even with the missing data (especially if the majority of the data is there...)
It really bugs me that I cannot calculate the effects by hand; I would like to have a little more control over the analysis, and use the software more as a tool for throughput rather than outsourcing understanding how the calculations work.