Hi,
First of all, Mixed Models are not simple. Most people struggle with these concepts. I've done a Master's in Applied Statistics including a module on Mixed Models and I still struggle with the concepts.
There are lots of posts about Mixed Models on the JMP Community so I would encourage you to look through those. I suggest that you look for answers to each of these questions individually rather than trying to get answers to all of your questions in one go.
I also encourage you to look at some of the other resources around Mixed Models. This and this blog post by Jian Cao should be useful.
I suggest that you post data for an example of a problem that you are trying to model. This will make it easier for Community members to help you.
That said, let's see if we can answer some of your questions now...
1. This is in one of Jian's blog posts where it is used to specify Patient. When you have repeated measures in a stacked structure you need to tell JMP the column that identifies the "unit of measurement", that is, the "thing" on which you have taken repeated measures. Again, it would help if you can provide an example from your work.
2. Correct.
3. Jian's first blog post has a good example. If you nest random coefficients then you can model having a different slope for an effect for each level of the random effect. (As well as a different intercept for each level of the random effect.) E.g. a different slope for Yield vs Moisture for each level of Variety.
4. X*X would be a described as the "quadratic" effect and would allow you to model a curvilinear relationship between Y and X. Yes, you can specify these as nested random effects.
5. Again, the example from Jian's first blog post is useful here. Moisture is specified as both a fixed effect and as a random effect nested within Variety.
6. I am not sure exactly what you mean by non-parametric here. I think you are maybe asking about situations that are not standard linear models. Generalized Linear Mixed Models are not currently possible in JMP (or JMP Pro). You can add your vote and comments to the JMP Wish List here.
I hope this all helps.
Phil