I am not sure exactly what you want but you could make a month-only variable by adding a new column with the simple formula
Month(:Date) //assuming Date is the name of your date column
This will yield a numeric column with numbers 1-12. These can be recoded (use e.g. Recode in the Cols menu) to Jan-Dec if you prefer that. Use this column with Summary or Tabulate to get monthly statistics.
However, if you want summarize by both month and year then you could also make a Year(:Date) column and then group after both columns.
Alternatively make a a combined column with the formula (choose format m-y to avoid showing the date)
Date DMY( 1, Month( :Date ), Year( :Date ) )
Or by concatenating the month and year columns I described above using the column formula
Char( :Month ) || "-" || Char( :Year )
The last example gives a nominal month-year though, which may or may not be desired.