Quentin: Bill Worley offers some great advice that, quite frankly, I'm embarrassed I didn't suggest as well. I was just too focused on your worrying about a p value associated with the LOF test to even consider the issues Bill raises. All too often I think some folks try to distill the 'accept and use the model' decision to one and only one model diagnostic statistic. I call this behavior falling victim to 'mononumerosis'.
On to your last question in the post: "So do you think with all these observations taken into account I could reasonably accept this model and try to validate it with additional runs ?"
It would be highly presumptuous of me to make a recommendation one way or the other to you regarding '...accept this model..'. From afar I'm reluctant knowing little about your problem, the conduct of the experiment, knowledge of the process, etc. to begin to give you anything other than a very uninformed opinion. Hence I'll decline.
This much I will offer; During my tenure as a industrial statistician over decades, I can't tell you how many times I'd be asked this very same question. My reply was always something like this: "OK Quentin, rather than give you my opinion, here's what I suggest you do. Pause for a moment and think about the decision the data, the experiment, and your analysis are leading you towards. Think about the consequences of that decision from a practical point of view. Especially if the outcome is less than desirable. How do you feel about that decision? Not from a statistical point of view but from a practical point of view. Now, in the pit of your stomach, how do you feel about that decision? If you feel some butterflies...then stop, pause, and circle back for more information/data/analysis/experimentation/conjecture...whatever it is...but delay the decision."
A long time ago I read a quote by Moen, Nolan and Provost that went something like this: "In the final analysis it's not a question of statistical inference but a question of a degree of belief." Or as Dr. Deming was known to say, "The most important figures are unknown and unknowable." P - values we know...but the most important 'figures' are unknowable.