Hi Peter,
One possibility is to consider the quantiles as analogous to standard deviations. In non-normally distributed data, the 84.1% quantile minus the 15.9% quantile encompasses 68.2% of the data, and therefor can perhaps be thought of as 1 std on either side of the median. The +/-3s control limits could therefore be determined using the 99.9% and 0.1% quantiles, approximately. Custom quantiles can be set using the redhotspot in the Distribution report window.