You haven't provided enough structure for your experiment. There is no information on levels or whether you did any repeats or replication? Could you attach the data table? When you say you are trying to optimize, is that really what you want or do you want to select the winner? There is no one right way to analyze the data. Typically you will start DOE analysis with the model you used to select the experiment and perform Fit Model in JMP. There are a number of statistics you use to help reduce or simplify the model, but yes you should simplify the model before using the prediction profiler with confidence. What do you mean by quadratic interactions? you mean something like this: X1*X2^2? If you have interactions, you should be cautious of setting for the main effects.
As a note, Optimization comes after you understand noise in the system. If you are truly optimizing, then you should have already established the significance of factors. Now you are contour mapping the response surface.
Also, I find it extremely unusual that you have a situation with only 1 response variable. I don't know that I have ever seen this. We live in a multivariate world.
"All models are wrong, some are useful" G.E.P. Box