Hi Laura,
Thanks for replying so promptly, and thanks for the video, this was amazingly helpful!
Edition - You called it, I was running 18.2, but I just upgraded to 19.0.4. (Eagerly awaiting 19.1)
Time Gaps - You are correct, the time between the measures is not uniform. From baseline, the next measure is 3 years later, and the next is 2 years later (5 yrs from baseline)
Unfortunately when I try to run with the random intercept checked, I get an error. After replacing the random intercepts (for 19.0.4 version), running the model crashes the program. Here are screen shots:

