Hi,
Questions about random effects seem to come up regularly in the community discussions. You are not alone!
By specifying a Random attribute for the nested effect of Leaf Number within Individual you are not saying that they are "connected randomly." What you are saying is that there is likely to be variation in leaf area from one leaf to another (for a given individual).
If you specified this as a fixed effect (the regular, default flavour of effect) you would be saying that there is a systematic difference between one leaf number and another. For example, for any individual, area is greater for leaf #2 vs leaf #1. I don't think that is the effect that you are expecting to see or that you wish to model.
By specifying the effect as Random you are acknowledging that, within an individual, there is random variation in area from one leaf number to another.
You might also want to include Invidual as a random effect if you think there could be a difference in area between individuals that needs to be accounted for.
Hope this makes sense. Explaining random effects is not simple.
Phil